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knowing how to adapt is the great wisdom of life

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people walking should be able to see both the mountains and rivers in the distance and the road under their feet.

“do not care about temporary gains and losses, and make changes based on global considerations" are often a shortcut to reaching your destination.
if you are poor, you will change; if you change, you will be able to understand. persistence may not be correct. wisdom is to understand how to be flexible.

a man practiced meditation and asked the master to ask him: "what is the right relationship between a person and others?" the master said four words to him.
the first sentence is, “treat yourself as someone else.”
the student thought for a while: i understand that if a person is very happy, he will take it lightly and think that this is nothing more than someone else's business; if he is very sad, he will take it lightly and think that others will catch up with it. "treat yourself as someone else", so both joys and sorrows can pass quickly.
the master said the second sentence: "treat others as yourself."
the student thought for a while: this means to put his heart in mind, to put himself in others' shoes, and to think from the perspective of others.
the master laughed: "you are very good." then he said the third sentence: "treat others as others."
the student frowned: does it mean that everyone is independent and everyone needs to be respected, so we must start from the standpoint of others? the master said, "you have a good understanding."
then, the teacher said the fourth sentence: "treat yourself as yourself."
the student sat for a while: this sentence is too deep, i still need to understand it well.
it seems to be a game of words, but it contains a deep zen meaning. the value of these "self" and "others" changes lies in:
every time you think from a different perspective.
a bottle of mineral water, some say it is long, which is right, because you look at it from the vertical direction; some say it is round, which is also right, because you look at it from the bottom of the bottle.
sometimes, only by changing your thinking can you be invincible.


once upon a time there was a poor man who had a very beautiful daughter.
the poor man's family is in a shortage and his wife is weak and sick, so he had to borrow a lot of money from the rich. as the end of the year approaches, the poor really can't pay back the money they owe to the rich, so they come to the rich's home and ask him to delay for a while.
the rich did not believe that the poor family was so embarrassed that he described it, so he asked to go to the poor family to take a look. after coming to the poor family, the rich saw the poor's beautiful daughter and bad ideas immediately emerged.
he said to the poor, "i think your family is really difficult, and i don't mean to make things difficult for you. let's do this. i put two stones into a black jar, one black and one white. if you touch the white one, you don't have to pay back the money, but if you touch the black one, you will marry my daughter to pay off the debt!"
the poor had no choice but to agree.
when the rich man put the stones into the jar, the poor man's daughter happened to pass by him. the rich man put two black stones into the jar. the poor man's daughter instantly understood the rich man's sinister intentions, but she was also troubled that she could not expose his tricks in front of her. she had a sudden inspiration and came up with a good idea, and quietly told her father.

so, when the poor man felt the stone and took it out of the jar, his hand trembled "accidentally". before the rich man could see the color clearly, the stone had fallen to the ground, mixed with a pile of stones on the ground, making it difficult to confirm.
the rich man said, "i will put two stones in again, and you can touch them again!"
the poor man's daughter said, "don't do it again! just look at the color of the stone left in the jar, will you know whether the stone my father just touched is black or white?"
as she said that, she reached into the jar, took out the remaining black stone, and sighed, "it seems that my father was touching a white stone!" the rich man was speechless.
when the objective environment cannot be changed, change your own concepts and learn to adapt to the situation, so that you can find a path to success in desperate situations.

in life, many things often have to turn: the road has to turn, things have to turn, and sometimes destiny has to turn.
life is like a river. only by constantly turning around can you overcome the mountains and ridges, gather all rivers, and become a huge stream.
the true meaning of life is realization, not pursuit; it is to face the bad situation of reality and know how to turn and detour and grow, rather than rushing or escaping.

in the spring of life, we enjoy the warm spring breeze and warm sunshine as much as possible. when we encounter cold winter, we must adjust our pace in time and grasp the pulse of life without rushing or impatiently. a person's life always has to go through storms and rush around. those who just fight are reckless, and those who plan and know how to adapt are wise.
the mountains are silent, only the towering; the flowing water never stops, and it becomes agile.

calm and grand, outstanding and upright are the characteristics of the mountain;when encountering a stone, it will be divided, and when encountering a waterfall, it will be combined. this is the personality of water.

water can penetrate stones, mountains can block water, mountains have the wonderfulness of mountains, and water has the beauty of water, and mountains are surrounded by water and water, which is a graceful scenery on earth.

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