other causes and effects are ripe after going through reincarnation, and the consequences of unfilial piety are almost all retributions in the present life, with few exceptions.
if you are unfilial in your prime, it is almost inevitable that your children and grandchildren will be unfilial in your old age.
my father has two brothers, and my father is the eldest, and there is a younger brother and a younger sister.
my grandma is 90 years old this year. the "wheel" she eats over the years is to take turns living in my family and my uncle's house, each family has two or three months of earth wheel.
every time, when grandma's turn is on uncle's house, aunt is unhappy. she looks stern every day and is cold to grandma.
as long as the uncle is not at home, the aunt will swear to grandma, and stipulate that grandma is allowed to eat half a bowl of rice per meal, saying that the elderly will not be good for their health if they eat too much;
my aunt disliked my grandma very much and gave her a special bowl. she put the dishes into the rice bowl for each meal and asked her to sit in her room with the rice bowl to eat, saying that the old man had stomach qi and should not eat with the young man at the same table.
in fact, my grandma was afraid that young people would despise her and paid great attention to her image. she always washed herself clean and always smiled and said nothing more.
once, when i went to my aunt's house, i happened to meet my aunt criticizing her grandma. i don't know what's going on. i remember my aunt's attitude clearly at that time. my aunt pointed at her nose, glared at her eyebrows, and cursed: "if i continue to do this next time, i'm not polite to you!"
later, my aunt's abuse of grandma became common. once, she said to grandma in front of everyone: "you are still alive at such an old age, which is a lifelong life for future generations."
my brother and sister have an objection to my aunt's behavior. my younger brother and sister-in-law proposed that they simply let my grandma live in my house and not turn to my aunt's house. however, as soon as this idea was proposed, the first thing they opposed was grandma. grandma believed that since they had two sons, they should be equal, and not add more burden to any son, and not let outsiders gossip. my mom wasn't very happy either, and she felt it was unfair.
but my mother agreed to let my grandma live in my house for more days and try to stay in my uncle's house as little as possible. with two people opposed it, my younger brother and sister-in-law did not persist.
i also thought about taking my grandma to my house, but my grandma simply disagreed. the old man believed that it was natural to live with his son and daughter-in-law when he was old. living at the granddaughter's house means labeling his son as "unfilial".
let’s talk about aunt.
my aunt has a son who works in changsha city. because she is short and ugly, she can't marry her wife.
2016in the second half of the year, someone said that the woman was from a rural area in another county. i heard that my aunt's home is in the city. (county seat )the family was in good condition and agreed immediately. the two parties made an appointment to meet in a hurry in the hotel. at the banquet, the aunt promised the girl: she would go to changsha city to buy a house for her son and daughter-in-law next year. after the banquet, the two parties decided to get married on national day.
on the wedding day, it was very lively. all the relatives and friends were happy for their aunt when they saw the bride’s beauty and said that they didn’t know when their lifetime had such a blessing. at the wedding banquet, my uncle and aunt accepted the toast from my son and daughter-in-law, and couldn't stop smiling.
that night, everyone went home. at about ten o'clock, the bride ran out of the house and shouted at the neighbors and relatives and friends one by one. she yelled at the door and took the groom's cell phone, and called to the relatives one by one, asking everyone to come quickly, there was an urgent matter.
no one knew what happened, and they rushed over and there were some neighbors watching the fun. soon, my aunt's house was filled with people.
at this time, the bride spoke solemnly. the first sentence she said was: "today, i call everyone to come, just to ask everyone to judge and see if my mother-in-law is a beast..." everyone looked at each other in a sentence.
then, the bride scolded her in detail, and no one remembered her specific things. it's basically trivial matters, the rough idea is that at the wedding, the in-laws' family is not well treated by their parents' family.
after scolding, the bride pointed at her aunt in front of everyone and sweared: "don't expect me to be nice to you in the future! next year, i will buy a house in changsha, so you don't want to enter my door!"
uncle and aunt were stunned. they never dreamed that her daughter-in-law gave them such a strong warning on the first day she entered the house.
later everyone said that my aunt's daughter-in-law had some problems. but what can my aunt do to a daughter-in-law whom i finally got to have sex with? everyone told her that since she said she would not let you enter her door in the future, then don’t buy a house.
the aunt shook her head repeatedly: "don't buy it? i dare not buy it? i agreed to her personality. if she doesn't buy it, she will kill people with a knife."
as for the relationship between my aunt and my daughter-in-law in the future, let’s not mention it. the daughter-in-law's attitude towards her aunt was worse than that of her aunt's attitude towards her grandmother.
attached two other unfilial consequences
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there is a family in our village where a man works in shagang group and a woman farms at home. although it is an ordinary family, this family is still famous for supporting the elderly.
when the man's parents are older, several sons take turns to support him. the old man came to his eldest son's house and washed vegetables and cooked food by himself. he heard that the old man had to go to a long river to fetch water by himself, because the tap water was turned off by his unfilial daughter-in-law.
when the chinese new year is over, the man will give his parents some money, and the daughter-in-law will have to take back the money. as for men, they dare not speak for this family and always let their wives go. you said, if you have such a woman at home, can the family prosper and prosper?
speaking of this eldest daughter-in-law, she always looks down on her mother-in-law. because my mother-in-law was a romantic woman when she was young, not to mention that her eldest son was born to her by her mother-in-law.
so this wife always scolded her. in fact, this mother-in-law has already suffered retribution because she committed adultery when she was young. so my mother-in-law has never been in good health, and her son and daughter-in-law are unfilial to her. this mother-in-law has lived a miserable life.
speaking of that eldest son, he has worked in shagang for more than 30 years and is considered an old man. thinking about it, it is not easy to persevere in shagang for decades, and he has retired now.
it should be time to enjoy the happiness, but he still went out to do some work. my eldest son was not in good health, and when he was working in shagang, he also had tens of thousands of yuan in stocks in the factory. but when he retired, he took back all the tens of thousands of yuan in stocks.
not long after, shagang group's stocks were distributed at a ratio of 1:10, and shagang's veterans could generally receive hundreds of thousands of yuan. but he didn't see a penny. he was really stunned at that time and was so anxious that he almost jumped off the building!
besides, my wife is not in good health and often needs medicine. although they have a daughter, they have married far away and can't come back a few times a year. can they still live a good life in their later years?
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when i was very young, i was sent outside to raise by my parents, and i didn't go home to study until i was about to go to school. (because the household registration )。i suffered a lot outside, so i resented my parents very much. in addition, when nurturing relationships with parents, i am not by my side, so i have no feelings for them. i never consider any difficulties my parents have, and i always feel that my parents owe me.
when i was a child, i quarreled with my mother and scolded my parents in person. after getting married, i was still incompatible with the situation and still couldn't feel my mother's kindness after having my own children.
at that time, i tried my best to hide from my parents, mainly from my mother, and even didn't go home to see her during the spring festival. in fact, it took less than twenty minutes to walk away from my parents. this shows how stupid and unfilial i was at that time!
later, i lived a prosperous life with a little blessing, and changed to a bright and spacious house, lived in a good community, and had good savings. but i didn't think that my parents still lived in the old community and old houses, and lived a frugal life.
i thought it was because i had the ability to live a wealthy life, and i never thought that my older parents would enjoy it with me. from this we can see how stupid and unfilial i was at that time!
once my mother asked me for money and i gave it to her, but i was very angry at that time. i told my sister: i gave a lot of money on the national day and a lot of money during the spring festival. i asked me for money in march. did my money come from the strong wind? tell her if she asks me for money again, i will definitely not give it!
my sister lives with her parents, so i asked my sister to tell her mother about this. now i realized that my mother was not short of money at that time. the purpose of my mother asking me for money was to tell me: you ignore your parents too much! you have to be filial to your parents! however, i couldn't think of this at that time. from this we can see how stupid and unfilial i was at that time!
later, i left my motherland and settled abroad. before i left, my mother really hoped that i would not sell my house. my mother never lived in a big house in her life and longed to live in my house. (because i have lived in it for more than three years in total, the house is basically a new house, and it is complete inside. you can live in it if you move in. )。
but i was so selfish that i only considered that i needed a lot of money to go abroad. what should i do if i didn’t sell the house? i had a quarrel with my mother again. in the end, my husband advised me to leave the house for the elderly, and i reluctantly agreed. from this we can see how stupid and unfilial i was at that time!
unfilial parents will be punished by god, so my consequences are:
my child is in poor health and often gets sick. he goes to the hospital with a high fever every few days. if he doesn’t have medicine, he has to hang a drip. i often don’t sleep at night to help my child cool down. because my unfilial piety also brings pain to my children, it’s a sin!
at that time, i didn't understand cause and effect, so i thought the child was poor in physical fitness, so i also took leave every few days to take care of the child. there was no need to mention the work results. it was common for me to be late and leave early. it was a common thing to take leave all day. my work unit took care of me with my husband's face, otherwise i would have been opened.
i studied fo it has been almost three years since i was studying in a daze and didn’t understand the truth. after reading some good books and listening to good teachers’ teachings, i gradually understood a little filial piety and opened a little trick to filial piety.
once when i called my mother, my mother said that she had not been healed since she moved to my house and she was always feeling uncomfortable. i called someone to ask why, and the other party told me that my mother's blessings were a little less, and living in this big house would be "like a slight slumber and needlework". (this is the original sentence )。
i just ask, i wish to give my blessings to my mother, just hope that my mother can be safe. i did not tell my mother about this, but just called my sister indirectly to ask about her mother's recent situation. my sister sued me, and she was very good recently and i was really happy.
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