How should modern people express their speech appropriately? _Buddhist Library
There is also an attitude, it is necessary to use cordiality and sincerity, not to use the method of forced confession, not to use a suspicious and hostile attitude, if you use suspicion, hostility, use the method of coercing confession, using the method of confession, then people must be very painful, and people will definitely give you a very ugly reaction. So there is a term in Buddhism called love language, love language is not the love that tells us to fall in love, but the kind face, after people listen to it, they feel that you are very compassionate to him, you care about him, you respect him, and you can help him, help him; Although he doesn't feel that you are assisting him and helping him, at least he feels that you respect him very much, and you treat him as if he is a teacher, like his own bosom friend to ask him for advice, so when you talk to him, he will be happy to accept you, and at the same time, he is also very willing to tell you what he knows, then the communication between them can be unimpeded.
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So in the Buddhist scriptures, there is a genre called argumentation, also called argumentation; The meaning of the argument depends on skill, and it is necessary to not only have the principle of logic, but also pay attention to the organization and use of words, and be able to express just the right concepts and reasons. It's best that when you express it, don't use too abstract, can be lived, can make people listen to it, and feel as if it is something that can be accessed at any time in life, this kind of example, like a story, appears in front of him, in this way, he will be easy to accept; If you are completely using a way of preaching, persuading, and subduing, a way of conquering, and a domineering attitude, if you want people to listen to you, then unless you yourself have great authority, they will be uncomfortable to listen to, and they will also be disgusted, and the effect you hope to get is not easy to happen.
Site Map Also, the use of this word is also very important, people say that they are not good at using appropriate words and phrases, to express what you want to say in your heart, in your heart clearly say that I want you, please tell me your opinion, the result is the opposite, I ask you, is this the case, if you say the other way around, please advise, I think you will be willing to advise me, these two expressions, the way of the two languages is completely different, then the other party you use the first expression of the language, people will be angry, you use the second language, People will rejoice.enrollrecruit Master Taixu - My Religious Experienceenroll
