unexpectedly, her rival was the daughter she had abused in her previous life.

a female buddhist friend from shanghai came to me, hoping that i could help her solve her problems and unlock her confusion.

she said her marriage was very painful: her husband rekindled his old relationship with his ex-girlfriend in 2006. now they often chat online, call each other as "husband and wife", and also post their diaries on their common web pages. she was in pain and always wanted to get a divorce, but by chance, she couldn't get along.

i looked for her and told her the scene i saw:

about five hundred years ago, a family of three lived on the hillside, a couple and their daughter. the daughter is only about 4 years old and was physically punished by her mother locked outside the house. the child was sobbing alone outside. the father couldn't bear it and wanted to take the child back, but his wife was not sure and had a very tough attitude. because the wife is too strong and has a typical heart, the husband can only swallow his anger and dare not speak out. outside the window, the child was crying. although the husband felt sorry for him, he could do nothing.

i looked at the relationship between the three of them in this life and found that although her husband hugged her, he looked at another woman outside the window with deep eyes, feeling lost.

so, i told this buddhist friend with certainty: "your husband will not abandon you. because you were husband and wife in your previous life, and the fate in this life is just a continuation of your previous life. your rival in this life is your daughter in your previous life. you abused your daughter in your previous life, and you were not allowed to express your love to your daughter. therefore, your husband's concern for his daughter continued to this life. in this life, he was led by karma and they became lovers, but because they did not have the fate of husband and wife, they could not be together."

i continued, "actually, your husband's life is still very harmonious."

she also admitted: "i just couldn't accept his emotional cheating, so i was very depressed and always wanted to get a divorce."

i smiled and told, "you were husband and wife in your previous life, and this life is also destined. you cannot live without your husband. even if you have tried many times, you will involuntarily lean back after leaving a little bit. this is because your fate is not over. your husband and your daughter in your previous life, who is his current ex-girlfriend, have no fate with husband and wife. this girl has a bad marriage in this life, and her husband is particularly fickle, and because you are too strong and not gentle, he cannot get love and warmth from you. therefore, the two people with empty hearts have to find some comfort in each other through the virtual network, but once they meet, they will feel inappropriate."

after hearing what i said, she immediately said, "i think this is the case, you are right! the girl also said on her blog that she couldn't really fall in love with my husband."

so, i gave her some advice:

“first of all, you have a manly heart and your husband is very good. if you want to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, you have to learn to be gentle and considerate. you are a good fate. if you really get divorced, your next one will definitely be a bad guy who will punish you. secondly, you should give your husband more freedom, restrain your desire to control, and suppress him everywhere. you will do this in your previous life, restricting him everywhere and not allowing him to protect his children. in this life, it is time to let him go. not only that, you also need to find ways to sublimate and care more about your husband's ex-girlfriend. she is your daughter in your previous life. you abused her when you were a mother in your previous life. you should make up for this mistake in this life and try to turn bad karma into good karma. ”

after hearing this, she was very grateful and insisted on treating me to dinner. it was hard to refuse the affection, so i accepted it.

during the meal, she thanked me repeatedly: "thank you for giving me a key, and i am now filled with light."

i said, "buddhism is your real key."

comments after reading:the fate of husband and wife in the six realms of reincarnation is nothing more than fate, good fate or bad fate.

there are many kinds of fate between husband and wife. in the past life, they were husband and wife, but in this life, they were still husband and wife, which is rare; the most common and unacceptable thing is that the previous life may be mother, son, father and daughter, brother and sister, or even a dog or pig in the family, and a husband and wife in this life. what's more, in the past life, they were enemies, and in this life, they torture each other...

it is because every thought in our present moment is planting the cause. when we cannot let go of a person or even an animal, when the consequences are ripe in a certain life, we may continue this inability to let go of the father-daughter relationship, husband-wife relationship, friend relationship, and brother-foot relationship...

cause and effect are not bad at all, and they will make clever arrangements and do not count on our personal preferences. therefore, in the cycle of reincarnation, the relationship between people is actually the most chaotic and even unacceptable...

the reason why we are so persistent is because we cannot see the cycle of reincarnation.